Yung mga gifts sa mistress and show of affection — material, fleeting things … ‘wag mainggit. ‘Wag ma-insecure. Painful but bearable. What is unbearable is the spiritual consequences of their actions — they don’t realize or maybe they know but they choose to fall into sin — in the end, sino ang mas kawawa — sila o ikaw ? Ang husband — dito lang sa mundo; temporary din.
Let us find our consolation sa Dios na forever permanent at sa promises Nya. Upgrade natin ang isip at puso natin to a level of love – yung transcending the physical sexual desires and material entitlements.
In the midst of a problematic situation, let us give God the space to be God. After or while we do our part according to the proper way of doing our duties, we step aside and let God do His role as God. Sometimes Kasi, nahaharangan natin ang work ni God by our wrong moves ( which we feel at that time is our right, our entitlement to react ).
“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.”
Colossians 3:1-4 NIV