Hi sis. The bible says on “Change of [Marital] Status”:
“Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches.”
1 Corinthians 7:17 NIV
The point where a person comes to believe in Jesus Christ is a demarcation line. This is referred to as the point where
“God has called a person.”
Believers are to stay in that situation they are/ were in (married or unmarried) at that point in time that they came to be believers.
Persons in a remarriage who, given time, reach the Reality Stage of love who reach the subsequent Resentment, Rage, Retaliation, Resignation/ Ruins (without Christ) instead of Restoration (with Christ) sometimes ask God if the pain and suffering from a remarriage gone wrong has its roots from not being in God’s perfect will but His permissive will.
Here are some insights from bible scholar, Ptr Nomer Bernardino on the subject:
https://butterflyinthespring.com/2018/02/27/happiness-marriage-and-remarriage-dr-nomer-bernardino/
You might want to read this too?
https://butterflyinthespring.com/2015/09/25/a-word-from-deonna-regarding-divorce/
